Definitely not number 3

I am depressed and what I thought would help today made things worse. I'm tired of this. I think a day off work may help.

I am dying to know how to tell people I love so much some things that may hurt their feelings. I need an outlet, but I don't want to seem like a know-it-all or bossy. It just comes across that way because I just can't stoop down to that any more. I have to think about everything in my life and that is just the part I feel holds me back.

Again- its the laziness I can't stand.
Please... What happened here? Selfishness?